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08-31-21, 02:33 AM | |
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I am in a similar situation with my Mom. I second all the suggestions Taiga said. I talk to my Mom once or twice a day. She drives, has some contact with others but the lockdown has been difficult & I havent been able to see her in person as often.
I got her a smart phone but she is stubborn about using it even though she is capable, has a laptop she uses daily. But she knows how to use the basics for emergencies. However I have had success with emailing. I send her little info links and sites that interests her and cute funny or uplifting stuff. Perhaps snail mail would work too if he isnt up for the tech. I watch Netflix movies with her every now and again. We are on the phone, me on my computer, her on her laptop. "Ok on the count of three, push play" lol I send her little stuff from Amazon she needs around the house and little thoughtful gifts - like greeting cards. It gives her something to look forward to & me a reason to call & let her know it's on the way. I have even read a little from her favorite spiritual books or shared a paragraph or so of what I am reading & we talk about what it means. Also just call to say Hello, I love you & hope u have a good day consistently. I sent her youtube links to all of her old favorite music- she didn't know it was all there. She had a real good time listening to stuff she hadn't heard in years. I sent her a little small floor pedal bike, some rubber exercise bands and youtube links to tai chi for elders and check in to encourage her to do her exercises. I am really corny and silly and try to laugh a lot & email silly stuff from youtube, it helps tremendously both me and her. Whatever his interests are, find a way to engage him. Reading snips of books together, watching movies, puzzles etc. & set up regular contact by phone.
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