I probably lurked for about 6 months. Of course, it was a lot smaller then (1998) and folks put their real names.
I actually remember my very first post. It was titled, "Step Virgin." I was frustrated that I couldn't follow most step videos to save my life. I received many kind and helpful replies right away.
And, I had VFers offer to send me videos they thought I might like. I was stunned that strangers would come to my fitness rescue.
Sadly, my problem was/is mild dyslexia and I still have trouble with even the most basic step.
Happily, VF is still the home to many kind and helpful people!