I gave birth to an almost 8 pound baby boy naturally, without pain relief but a few puffs of gas and air. I was discharged from the hospital 10 hours after labor. I consider this a major, major fitness accomplishment.
I am wearing now the same size 6 pants and dresses that I wore pre-pregnancy, even though my hips are definitely wider
Who cares, really! I'm proud of my post baby shape, despite being unable to exercise for more that 15-20 minutes a day!