Dear WWWendy,

[adawn]

Originally Posted by toaster

It's a sad situation, but I have to assume Wendy has her reasons - we can never know what someone else might be going through.

I totally agree also.

[Vintage VFer]

Originally Posted by cataddict

ITA. I never get a positive feeling from these threads as they seem to attack Wendy personally—my interpretation, anyway. If and when she decides to post openly, I would hope that she would be treated kindly, but sadly I am not so sure that would happen.

Yes, she is alive, and hopefully finding some peace in her life.

It's hard to know what to say about that. There are folks on VF who have known her for a very long time and were friends in real life. She has abandoned them as well.

When I was unable to log-in for three days, I was not feeling very kind. I won't be paying my subscription dues anymore.

[cataddict]

Originally Posted by Vintage VFer

It's hard to know what to say about that. There are folks on VF who have known her for a very long time and were friends in real life. She has abandoned them as well.

When I was unable to log-in for three days, I was not feeling very kind. I won't be paying my subscription dues anymore.

I understand that. I was posting from my perspective only and not judging what others may think or feel. It’s not my intention to speak for anyone other than myself.

[toaster]

Originally Posted by Vintage VFer

It's hard to know what to say about that. There are folks on VF who have known her for a very long time and were friends in real life. She has abandoned them as well.

When I was unable to log-in for three days, I was not feeling very kind. I won't be paying my subscription dues anymore.

Alta, I fully understand the frustration of people here! And I'm so sorry that some VFers who had more personal relationships with Wendy have lost these.

I know for me, it's very easy to get judge-y (I guess that's not a word, but it fits) in these types of situations. I may vent my annoyance, but then I try to fall back on my compassion (try being the key word there).

[Leonana]

Toaster, thanks, it's a good reminder to not be judgmental. Although, I think it's understandable to get frustrated sometimes. I guess you can feel both.

[Joni O]

Originally Posted by Karla25

Rest easy. Wendy is alive. She messaged me a few days ago.

Glad she's alive, but this makes me even sadder and more disappointed in her.

[sherry7899]

Originally Posted by Joni O

Glad she's alive, but this makes me even sadder and more disappointed in her.

I am so sorry, Joni.

[Erica H.]

Originally Posted by cataddict

ITA. I never get a positive feeling from these threads as they seem to attack Wendy personally—my interpretation, anyway. If and when she decides to post openly, I would hope that she would be treated kindly, but sadly I am not so sure that would happen.

Yes, she is alive, and hopefully finding some peace in her life.

I feel the same way. It makes me very uncomfortable.

Erica

[fanofladyvols]

Originally Posted by Karla25

Rest easy. Wendy is alive. She messaged me a few days ago.

Are you saying you received a message from her email....or you were messaged through her VF account?

[Vintage VFer]

Originally Posted by toaster

Alta, I fully understand the frustration of people here! And I'm so sorry that some VFers who had more personal relationships with Wendy have lost these.

I know for me, it's very easy to get judge-y (I guess that's not a word, but it fits) in these types of situations. I may vent my annoyance, but then I try to fall back on my compassion (try being the key word there).

Originally Posted by Leonana

Toaster, thanks, it's a good reminder to not be judgmental. Although, I think it's understandable to get frustrated sometimes. I guess you can feel both.

Yeah, I guess I come off as the heartless bad guy. Yet, I'm the one who receives the PMs from VFers who are also very angry, but don't want to post about it.